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]]> By: Did he just stare at the waitress’ butt? | I am Divorced not Dead http://divorcedwomenonline.com/2009/05/did-he-just-stare-at-the-waitress%e2%80%99-butt/comment-page-1/#comment-445 Did he just stare at the waitress’ butt? | I am Divorced not Dead Tue, 18 Aug 2009 17:35:13 +0000 http://divorcedwomenonline.com/?p=89#comment-445 [...] But when I watch my date interacting with a female server, I’m also looking for ‘other things’: (Read more here) [...] [...] But when I watch my date interacting with a female server, I’m also looking for ‘other things’: (Read more here) [...]

]]> By: Delaine http://divorcedwomenonline.com/2009/05/did-he-just-stare-at-the-waitress%e2%80%99-butt/comment-page-1/#comment-144 Delaine Wed, 20 May 2009 23:30:04 +0000 http://divorcedwomenonline.com/?p=89#comment-144 True, some waitresses do wear very eye-catching attire. But when you're on a FIRST date and your date gawks, I still think it's classless. And insulting. If I was regularly going out with a guy, then it might be different - heck, I might even make a comment about how attractive she is or tease him a bit if his eyes follow her. But first dates leave first impressions. Gawk = BAD! True, some waitresses do wear very eye-catching attire.
But when you’re on a FIRST date and your date gawks, I still think it’s classless. And insulting.
If I was regularly going out with a guy, then it might be different – heck, I might even make a comment about how attractive she is or tease him a bit if his eyes follow her.
But first dates leave first impressions. Gawk = BAD!

]]> By: TentCamper http://divorcedwomenonline.com/2009/05/did-he-just-stare-at-the-waitress%e2%80%99-butt/comment-page-1/#comment-143 TentCamper Wed, 20 May 2009 17:02:49 +0000 http://divorcedwomenonline.com/?p=89#comment-143 I am always polite to servers...male or female, but I will say that the way many restaurants have their female staff dress...it is hard not to check them out a bit. I don't gawk, but I will take a gander at a nice ass. I am very happily involved and have no need to flirt or anything, but at the same time...if a woman looks good...take a look. I am always polite to servers…male or female, but I will say that the way many restaurants have their female staff dress…it is hard not to check them out a bit. I don’t gawk, but I will take a gander at a nice ass.
I am very happily involved and have no need to flirt or anything, but at the same time…if a woman looks good…take a look.

]]> By: Cathy http://divorcedwomenonline.com/2009/05/did-he-just-stare-at-the-waitress%e2%80%99-butt/comment-page-1/#comment-142 Cathy Wed, 20 May 2009 15:57:51 +0000 http://divorcedwomenonline.com/?p=89#comment-142 I've never been bothered by a man's wandering eyes. I'm a visual creature also and when I see a man I find attractive I'm going to look. There is a fine line though. It should be a quick look and then back to all attention on my date. Some people have no self-control though and lose sight of the fact that they may be on a date with a real gem...someone worth getting to know. Which isn't going to happen if they spend too much time ogling everyone except the one they are with. I’ve never been bothered by a man’s wandering eyes. I’m a visual creature also and when I see a man I find attractive I’m going to look.
There is a fine line though. It should be a quick look and then back to all attention on my date.
Some people have no self-control though and lose sight of the fact that they may be on a date with a real gem…someone worth getting to know. Which isn’t going to happen if they spend too much time ogling everyone except the one they are with.

]]> By: Delaine http://divorcedwomenonline.com/2009/05/did-he-just-stare-at-the-waitress%e2%80%99-butt/comment-page-1/#comment-141 Delaine Wed, 20 May 2009 04:59:43 +0000 http://divorcedwomenonline.com/?p=89#comment-141 I think so too, Kim, but I wonder how many men might read this blog and just laugh, thinking, "Well, we can't help ourselves - we're hot blooded males!" I think so too, Kim, but I wonder how many men might read this blog and just laugh, thinking, “Well, we can’t help ourselves – we’re hot blooded males!”

]]> By: Kim http://divorcedwomenonline.com/2009/05/did-he-just-stare-at-the-waitress%e2%80%99-butt/comment-page-1/#comment-140 Kim Wed, 20 May 2009 02:18:10 +0000 http://divorcedwomenonline.com/?p=89#comment-140 bottom line it is all about respect. bottom line it is all about respect.

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