Love him…love his penis.
May 11, 2009 by delainem
Filed under Dating & Sex, Figuring Out Men
I’ve been communicating with a woman whose husband is divorcing her. This woman is devastated. She loves her husband. I can hear her pain when we talk but I don’t hear her taking any responsibility for why he is leaving her for another woman.
You see, she loved him but she didn’t love his penis. There has been no sex in the marriage for
nearly three years. Seems she was beyond desiring that kind of relationship with him. I guess she took it for granted that he was on the same page as her.
I’m going to say here the same thing I said to her.
Ladies, if you don’t want your husband to stray, if you want your marriage to last and flourish, you better love his penis while you are loving him.
This all seems so simple to me but then, I’ve never loved a man that I wasn’t completely enamored with his manhood. How can you not love something that brings such pleasure?
I’m not a man so forgive me for speaking for men but I’d be willing to bet that most men would be elated if the woman they loved simply enjoyed sex with them. Men don’t want to be criticized for their sex drive they just want sex with the woman they love and some attention paid to their penis.
I have a feeling that a man’s penis gives him the determination and drive to do the thousands of things us women find so endearing about a man. I want a man who is strong and protective, one who will defend my honor, a man who feels like he can conquer the world. I also want a man who is gentle and loving and I’d be willing to bet that getting what I want means not only paying attention to the man but his penis also.
Don’t get me wrong, men are more than an erect penis. They are complicated human beings with a brain, heart and soul and like women; they don’t want to be treated like a piece of meat. They want and deserve to be respected, heard, loved and comforted
So, next time he walks up behind you and presses his penis into you, feel flattered. He is letting you know he wants you…not just sex but you. He wants your mind and your body and rightfully so would like to have those desires returned.
Let him know that you think his penis is adorable, sexy and wonderful. Love him and his penis ladies because if you don’t you can bet someone else out there will.
Cathy
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I think sometimes we ‘assume’ our partners are on the same page as us when it comes to sex. We think, “Oh there are more important things in a marriage than sex – look at all we’ve built together, how good of friends we are…”
But at the end of the day, I think we all need to want and be wanted. We need to feel desirable and desired. But sometimes we forget…we get lazy…hormones go crazy for while…dry spells turn into dry years. And when that disconnect continues, a door opens for the longing. That’s when someone can walk through it, ready or not – to meet you, OR your partner. And once that passion is reawakened, it’s really hard to walk away from.
Ok, this one was great! However, if your spouse approaches you and rubs his turgid love muscle (thank you Harlequin Romances) against you and says, “Hey, baby, how about a poke?” – it tends to dampen the mood.
I can relate your friend – for me it’s been three years and counting. OMG! Somebody find me a penis!
A little “poke?” How endearing! I think it goes without saying that some men are not lovable and neither or their penises.
Delaine, you are so, right on. Too bad people don’t realize the importance of sex in a relationship until they are faced with a cheating partner.
If someone is cut off they may end up cutting you out of their life. Replacement units can be easy to find if a person gets frustrated enough to go looking.
And I thought that all he wanted was sex when he pressed my penis into me and grabbed my breasts or buttocks without any caress, act of kindness, or touching words that might lead up to such “affection”!
It is all give and take la dolce. We give what others need and 9 times out to 10 we are going to get what we neeed in return.
It works that way in any aspect of life. You need certain things from your ex… acts of kindness, touching words, to get you in the mood.
He may need to feel an intimate connection with his wife in order to open up and give you those acts of kindness and touching words.
Read The Five Languages of Love. A great book that any married couple should read together.