Comments on: Why I Like To Date Divorced Men

By: Leonard

Leonard — Fri, 04 Dec 2009 07:21:34 +0000

What about the word “vow” don’t you understand?

Divorced fathers with kids are broke and needy.

They are entirely disposable.

I guess that is the attraction, however, you’re learning nothing of value from them. You’re learning failure in relationships.

Especially if they have kids, they proved only that they have bad judgment. They got dumped or domped their spouse because they are lazy, selfish and lying, very likely.

A whole generation of vacant characters results. Don’t be a part of it.

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By: Jane Clarke

Jane Clarke — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 14:46:32 +0000

i always ask any man who has been in a long term relationship “what did you do wrong in the relationship?”
if the answer is “nothing!” or “i don’t know…she just LEFT!” then i am very wary. it suggests a lack of “learning from the past”. my ex husband, as well as my baby’s father, ma have both been jerks, but i had my own mistakes to take ownership of…and if i don’t learn from them, the next guy is just as doomed.

By: DelaineM

DelaineM — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 14:45:39 +0000

I think all those darn growing pains we go through as a result of divorce end up molding us into better people – if we do the work – mind you, that DOES take time (my hand is waving the air, been there – been there).

NOW – separated men is another story lol. I assume you feel the same about separated women! Those guys I avoid dating altogether, no matter what they say or how cute they might be! I pity any man who dated me back then:)

By: nwhiker

nwhiker — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 14:24:49 +0000

I have to say thank you. It’s encouraging to know there are some women out there that appreciate a responsible divorced dad.

By: John

John — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 14:23:55 +0000

Hey, I’m wading too I’m with you for all of the reasons you list. I just have the utmost of respect for single moms for everything they face in daily life and how strong they really are. That is the type of person I want to be with. Nothing against non-married, childless women at all.

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By: DelaineM

DelaineM — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 19:48:14 +0000

Absolutely Barry, I’d hope my being divorced was a positive thing in men’s eyes verses a negative. I think it is. I can reverse everything I wrote on that list and apply it to myself – and I think it makes me and other divorced women a great catch.

I find it fascinating how much my own ‘divorced’ status has evolved; for truth is, when I first got separated, I felt very ashamed and insecure about it. I was afraid of being harshly judged for it. But now, a couple years into it, I wear that status with dignity cause I’ve worked hard to improve myself and the lives of my kids. And there’s been tremendous growth and change; what’s embarassing about that????

By: Barry

Barry — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 16:50:17 +0000

Good decision Delaine. You would be leaving out a bunch of pretty great guys if getting divorced was a deal breaker. After all, I would guess you would hope the reverse is also true for the guys looking