Submitted by: Cathy
We all know the latest…Sandra Bullock has filed for a divorce and adopted a baby. What about Jessie though, what do you suppose that cad things about all this?
Below is a statement released by Jessie James after the People Magazine interview with Sandra.
What do you think, a man repentant or a man pretending?
“My whole life has been full of hard decisions. The decision to let my wife end our marriage, and continue the adoption of Louis on her own, has been the hardest. The love I have for Louis cannot be put to words. Not having him around to love and to hold has left a huge hole in my heart. Sandy is the love of my life, but considering the pain and devastation I have caused her, it would be selfish to not let her go. Right now it is time for me to beat this addiction that has taken two of the things I love the most in life,” James said.
“I have always taken great pride in proving people wrong. That time has come once again to show that I am not what everyone says I am. I know in my heart that I can be the best father possible to my four children, and the mate Sandy deserves, and realize that this is an incredible mountain to climb. But I believe that the steps I have taken in the last 30 days (sex rehab) are the foundation for making this happen. The lifelong commitment I am making is what being a real husband and father is all about. I ask that you please do not judge Sandy for the things I have done. She has done no wrong. She played no part in any of this. She has been an amazing wife, mother, and best friend, for the over 6 years we have been together.”
This says it all to me, “The decision to let my wife end our marriage, and continue the adoption of Louis on her own, has been the hardest.”
Let? He is going to “let” his wife divorce him? These are the words of a man who thinks he is in control of everything…except of course his ability to be faithful. Some news for you Jessie, she could divorce you whether you “let” her or not.
On the other hand, you didn’t have to agree to her following through with the adoption of Louis Bardo on her own. You could have fought for the right to parent the child. One has to wonder what your motive is for not fighting for those rights.
If you gave up your parental rights to Louis in hopes of garnering favor with Sandra Bullock you may have made a mistake. All you’ve done is show her you are willing to give up your son. Not exactly the route to take if you want to show what kind of man you are.
Not many women are going to put much faith and trust in a man who gives up parental rights to a child, regardless of the circumstances. My personal opinion…you want Sandra Bullock to respect you, fight like hell and show her that you may have made mistakes but you aren’t a man who will turn his back on his child.
Now that is a man who earns respect!
They Just Weren’t That “Into Me.”