My husband moved out to “find himself” and decide if he wants to work on our marriage of 22 years or if he wants to be single.
He had an affair and I lived with this knowledge and his sadness after the other woman dumped him for fear that her husband would find out. Nonethethless I was still willing to work on our marriage. This is ruining our family economy and we are trying to put a son through college.
I feel stuck since I can’t move on. I can’t afford a divorce or legal separation. I feel that this could go on forever or at least until he finds his next bimbo.
I’m so depressed knowing I face an uncertain future and he seems to hold all of the cards. I’m 61, I left my career for his career, and raised our kids..now I’m basically jobless, kids are on their journies, no husband and facing a life of being single.
Shelley Stile is an ACC certified Divorce Recovery Life Coach and author who guides her clients to let go the pain of their divorce and move on to create new and vibrant lives after divorce. Shelley has been through her own divorce so she knows first-hand about the journey of divorce recovery. Receive her free, powerful e-book, The 10 Secrets to Coping with Divorce’, and her monthly ‘Take Back Your Life After Divorce’ Newsletter by going to: http://www.freedivorcesupport.com.