My husband of 30 years wants a divorce. He arrived at this decision after he had an affair and I decided I wanted to separate to take time to heal. During that time he was also placed on lithium and anti-depression meds.
He recently went off the meds and began attacking me via the legal system and our joint businesses. He has become very mean.
I know he loves me but I believe this is partially about money, control, manipulation and a mid life crisis. Sometimes I think he might eventually want to come back……
1) How do I let go when I have to deal with him everyday for work? And,
2) How can I keep him from hurting me? I can NOT walk away from the business if I ever want to see my investment.
The question becomes, do you want to let go? You say you know he loves you and yet you also mention that he had an affair, is very mean and is attacking you via the legal system. What is wrong with this picture?