How to Attract a Man and Keep Him Coming Back for More

Wondering how to attract a man and keep him coming back for more?42-18703628

It’s easier than it sounds. You don’t have to speak a foreign language, live in a loft in a trendy neighborhood, drive a hybrid, or down tequila shots without flinching. You don’t have to be anything but yourself.

The key to attracting a man is to cultivate and maintain interests of your own. This means:

  1. Never cancel a night out with a friend to go out with him. Doing so sends the message that you are desperate.
  2. Continue to pursue your hobbies, your career, and your relationships with friends and family at the rate you did before you started dating.

In other words, live a full life!

If the guy tells you he can’t see you this weekend, don’t ask him why. Let him volunteer the information. If and when he does, tell him to have a good time and mean it. Chances are, he’ll be intrigued enough to ask you what your plans are for the weekend. Keep your answer vague. Tell him that you may go out with friends, and then go home and call one or two to line something up.

It’s also attractive to a man when you are not available to pick up every time he calls. If the phone rings while you’re in the shower, let him leave a message and wonder where you are.

I don’t suggest you lie or play games, and I do not advocate manipulation, but ask yourself:

Do you like men who follow you around, hang on your every word, and call you more often than necessary? Are you turned on by a guy who shows up after you’ve told him you need a night out with your friends? A guy who’s afraid to let you out of his sight?

Of course not.

All of us–men and women–want a “prize” when it comes to dating and relationships. We want someone who will treat us well, but who isn’t overly available. Overly available people are not interesting. People who have places to go and people to see are exciting–and a bit mysterious.

Keep a full life, and you will be interesting. You will be attractive. That man you’re so crazy about will definitely come back for more!

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    Just dropping a comment to say well done on the site. You make some very valid points!

    Girlies take notice of this article. Attracting a guy isn’t rocket science when you know how!


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