Tattooed AND Twisted! Jesse James Engaged to Kat Von D
January 21, 2011 by Cathy Meyer
Filed under cathymeyer, Celebs & News
Submitted by: Cathy
Ten short months after Sandra Bullock learned she was married to a serial adulterer he, Jesse James is “in love” and engaged to be married to Kat Von D.
Jesse moved on quickly…or did he? Could be Jesse is following a pattern not uncommon to many who go through a divorce. Could be Kat Von D is nothing more than a distraction from Jesse facing Jesse.
You can call it a rebound relationship or an innate inability to learn from adversity, one thing is for sure, Jesse may walk on two legs but he behaves like something that crawls on its belly.
Too harsh? Sorry but I call it as I see it and this man is angry and in my opinion is striking out at Sandra Bullock and Kat doesn’t have enough sense to realize she is being used as a battering ram for the ex-wife.
Jesse told the magazine, “2010 was actually the best year of my life because I fell in love with my best friend. An amazing woman who stood behind me when the world turned their backs.”
Hopefully Sandra no longer cares but if there are still feelings for him that remark stung which is exactly what he intended. Why would he make of point of pointing out that Kat “stood behind me when the world turned their back” if he weren’t attempting to send the last woman he was involved with a message?
In Jesse’s mind if Sandra had loved him she would have stood by him. Typical thinking and belief system of a cheater or abuser. You call them out and hold them responsible, you are the bad guy. Jesse went to sex rehab, professed his regret on television and Sandra divorced him. In his twisted brain if she had “loved” him she would have “stood by him.”
It also keeps him from having to accept true responsibility for his bad behavior and dismissal of the feelings of his wife. This man is still very much in love with Sandra BUT the pain of admitting to himself that he deserved exactly what Sandra gave him outweighs doing what he would have to do for Sandra to ever trust him again.
James began professing his love for Von D on Twitter earlier this month, writing on Jan. 9: “I have Never Felt so Loved! I’m The Luckiest (man) in the World!”
Never? Really? A great thing to say if you want to dismiss or belittle the feelings of someone who has hurt you and in Jesse’s mind, Sandra hurt him by not standing by him. What could be his motive for wanting to belittle the love Sandra had for him? Because doing so makes it easier for him to not feel bad about the hurt he caused not only Sandra but his children.
This man is not only tattooed, he is twisted. The good news for Jesse, so is Kat Von D so what we are seeing here could turn out to be a match made in heaven. They’ll either last forever or go down in flames together…my money is on flames.
To each his own, I suppose. The whole thing just seems so tacky. I just wish good things for Sandra Bullock, and all the other good men and women who are genuine and respectful in their approach to relationships.
Cathy you are spot on. I’ve been in his shoes and know what is going on in his head.
I cheated on my wife and blamed her when I got caught. Then I told myself if she had loved me enough she would have forgiven me. I went out of my way to punish her for not standing by me after I had cheated on her with multiple women over many years.
It is what some of us do. It only works for so long though or it that was the way it was for me. I had to finally face the facts and admit I was an SOB who deserved to lose my wife.
I’m just glad all my crap didn’t play out in the public eye the way his is. Not sure I could have ever lived that down.
Glad you eventually pulled your head out of your butt! Bet you will get it right next time around.