Girlfriend Advice:Stop Comparing Yourself To HER

Submitted by Delaine Recently, I sat with my emotionally devastated friend Maddie who had just discovered her husband was having an affair.   Why?  When?  How?  Now what?  her brain raced to answer, as she felt her family dream falling to the ground in slow motion. But it didn’t take long for her to start doing what most of us women [...]

Ask The Divorce Coach: Unable To Let Go Of Ex

  Dear Shelley,   Why is it that I just can’t seem to let go of my ex-husband?  I literally stress myself out about it. Especially now that I know that he’s happy and engaged. Am I ever going to be happy? We recently got divorced in May of this year.   Rachel   Dear Rachel, [...]

Self-Loathing & The Cheater

Submitted by Delaine It may not seem it. But it’s there, deep within him. It is beyond his admission, beyond his self-awareness. But it’s there… eating away at his soul: His self-loathing. He may seem all blissfully happy-in-love with her – just look at that skip in his step! That skips says that he wants [...]

“TigerText”- A Way For Cheaters to Cover Their Tracks

Submitted by Delaine It’s something I bet Tiger Woods wished he’d had - and something everyone, including cheaters, can now take advantage of.  It’s called TigerText.  And it can kill embarassing text messages or ‘evidence’ – forever. Released this past February by California start-up, X Sigma Partners, TigerText is an iPhone application that enables users to set [...]

Unusual Bedroom Behavior: Signs A Spouse May Be Cheating

It was only in hindsight that Gail realized that signs of her husband’s cheating had been present for months: in the bedroom. “Out of blue, he kept trying a new sexual position,” said Gail.  “I thought maybe he’d seen it in a movie or something.  ‘C’mon,’ he’d say, ‘Just put these pillows under your hips, I know you’ll love it.’  [...]

“I Grew Balls”: How One Wife Confronted The ‘Other Woman’ To Find The Truth

Submitted by Delaine It wasn’t until ‘she’ phoned in the middle of the night that Pam became suspicious.  The woman was obviously drunk, her voice a string of slurs.  And when Pam asked, “Who is this?”, all she got heard was “(Giggles) Just a friend…(click).” The next day, Pam confronted her husband.  Completely taken off guard, he insisted [...]

Ask the Divorce Doctor: The Other Woman Was a Prostitute!

Get answers to your divorce questions from author Erica Manfred. Editor’s Note: Erica Manfred, author of He’s History, You’re Not: Surviving Divorce After 40, is answering your questions about divorce — from how to deal with betrayal, to surviving the first year, to dating again, to finding a new career. Our “Divorce Doctor” looks forward [...]

Ever Wonder Why Some Men Cheat?

Submitted by: Cathy If you’ve ever been the victim of infidelity the one thing you’ve wondered is “why” did he cheat? You will ask yourself that question dozens of times and may even think learning why the affair happened will keep it from happening again or relieve the pain you feel. The truth is, knowing [...]

What has to happen for any marriage to survive infidelity? Case Study: Elizabeth/John Edwards

Article courtesy of Suzy Brown In he book, Resilience: Reflections on the Burdens and Gifts of Facing Life’s Adversities, Elizabeth Edwards writes about her reaction to husband John Edward’s affair. According to Edwards she “cried, screamed and went to the bathroom, and threw up”. “I spent months learning to live with a single incidence of [...]

Serving It Up Cold To That Lying, Cheating Bastard

Submitted by Delaine When you found out your spouse was cheating, were you obsessed with thoughts of revenge?  Throwing all his clothes in a heap on the lawn…slashing his tires…or forwarding copies of his cyber sex sessions to his entire address book?   Maybe your fantasies were more devious – perhaps they involved some Superglue and the bathroom [...]

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