Did You Know Child Support Can be Modified?
July 6, 2010 by Cathy Meyer
Filed under cathymeyer, Coping, Divorce Tips for Women, Legal Issues
Are Your Children Doing Without? Every parent knows firsthand, the expense of raising a child in this day and age. What most divorced parents don’t realize is that child support agreements can be modified if there is a significant change of circumstance. Katy and Joe have been divorced for 5 years. At the time of [...]
Dividing Retirement and Investment Plans During Divorce
July 3, 2010 by Cathy Meyer
Filed under cathymeyer, Divorce Tips for Women, Legal Issues, Legal Matters, Midlife Divorce, Money & Career
Mistakes Made When Dividing Marital Assets Dividing marital assets during divorce can be one of the most challenging and convoluted aspects of your divorce. It isn’t as simple as “I want the car, you keep the house.” Few people take into consideration the cash value of an “asset” and in the end, end up with [...]
Divorce and Pension Benefits: What are a Woman’s Rights During Divorce?
June 11, 2010 by Cathy Meyer
Filed under cathymeyer, Coping, Divorce Tips for Women, Legal Issues
Submitted by: Cathy The Employee Retirement Income Security Act of 1974 and the Internal Revenue Code of 1968 allow a former wife to have rights to an ex-husband’s pension benefits. Pension rights at divorce depend on two sets of rules: • The rules of your ex-spouse’s retirement system; and • The divorce laws of the [...]
Is Your Divorce Attorney Meeting Your Expectations?
June 2, 2010 by Cathy Meyer
Filed under cathymeyer, Coping, Divorce Tips for Women, Legal Issues, Legal Matters, Midlife Divorce
Submitted by: Cathy You Don’t Have to Settle For a Bad Divorce Attorney I had three divorce attorneys. The first one cost me hundreds of thousands of dollars due to incompetence. The second called me one afternoon after office hours and said to me, “if you ever get horny just give me a call.” Not [...]
Family Lawyers: Noble Or Scary Creatures?
May 20, 2010 by Cathy Meyer
Filed under Coping, Legal Issues
Submitted by Me & My Evil Twin Even though lawyers are often stereotyped as money-hungry, unethical piranhas, up until recently I’d only felt admiration and respect for mine. Why? Cause she’d gone through a tough divorce too – she was left almost pennliness to support herself and her two kids. Thus her decision to become a lawyer was born out of [...]
Parental Alienation: “A Uterus, Divorce Papers and Bruises”
March 10, 2010 by Cathy Meyer
Filed under cathymeyer, Children & Divorce, Editor's Picks, Grief & Anger, Legal Issues, Parenting, Single Dads, Single Moms
Submited by: Cathy Father’s right activists have been attempting to have Parental Alienation Disorder added to the fifth edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM V), the American Psychiatric Association’s “bible” of diagnoses. The National Organization for Women learned about the effort and is concerned. They have now sent out an [...]
Legal Action Can Help Mold A Child-Like Ex Into A Better Man
March 2, 2010 by Cathy Meyer
Filed under Coping, Editor's Picks, Family, Legal Issues, NoMore, The Ex
Submitted by Delaine Sometimes dealing with an ex can feel like you’re dealing with a child: you give and give and give….you kindly explain the same thing over and over and over again …yet still they don’t ‘get it.’ And though it’s sad to say - and painful to have to do - sometimes we have to [...]
Stop, Hey – What’s That Sound? Unresolved Legal Issues Pulling You Down…
October 22, 2009 by Cathy Meyer
Filed under Coping, Legal Issues, NoMore
Submitted by Delaine I’m no divorce expert; there’s no law degree or special accreditation following my name. But now that I’m two years into my divorce, there’s one golden nugget of advice I’d like to pass onto those newly divorcing: Get EVERYTHING down in writing - signed, sealed and wrapped up – otherwise, there’s a good chance [...]
Her Ex bought a WHAT? I thought he was broke!
October 15, 2009 by Cathy Meyer
Filed under Coping, Legal Issues, Money & Career, NoMore, The Ex
Submitted by Delaine They’ve been apart now for three years. Their divorce only became official a few months ago. And I swear to God, no word of a lie, he has lamented over how broke he is ever since they separated. But the other day, my best friend Hali, now his ex-wife, shocked me by blurting: [...]




