“Baby, this is sex not love.”

Submitted by Me & My Evil Twin
We went at it for hours.  And it was as awesome as the other six times we’d had sex.  Passionate.  Intense. Deep. Animalistic.  But as I lay beside him in the aftermath -  eyes closed, brain off in Post-Orgasmic Wonderland -  I suddenly heard:   “I love you, Lynn.”
My eyes flew open.  Did I imagine [...]

First Time Encounter: The Weakening, Sensual Touch of a Man

Submitted by Delaine
She said that within seconds of meeting him, she knew she was attracted to him.   And over the next two hours as they sat laughing and talking on their first date, their chemistry was so intense, it was palpable….
But somehow…somehow, she sensed there was something different about this man.  There was just ’something’ in his energy…the way he looked at her…the way [...]

Dating Younger Men – Would You? Could You? Dare Ya!

Submitted by Delaine
When I first started dating after divorce, I felt like I’d arrived on another planet.  Not just cause I had no idea how to date again, but because it quickly became apparent that a new ‘phenomena’ had come to town since I’d last visited:  Young Men Seeking Older Women.  And oh yeah -  their [...]

Sexual Adventure: Less Than A Bump & A Grind

 Prior to that night, I’d met him three times for dinner. And even though mentally and physically he charged all my cylinders, I kept my foot on the brakes; I wasn’t just looking for ‘any’ lover, I wanted an ‘alpha’ lover – a man who was strong, passionate, and very much in control, both inwardly [...]

One-Night Stands – Qualifiers & Disqualifiers

Recently I had the opportunity to go home with a lovely young man from a bar.  I’d been out drinking and dancing with some girlfriends and as the night wore on, this stay-at-home mom’s engine got all revved up:  “Just look at all those shoulders, backs, and arms,” my body screamed. “HELL-O!”  So how pleased I was when a 30-year-old, [...]

“You’ve PROVEN you don’t need a man, Delaine.”

 
 - My best friend Hali then put her wine glass down on the restaurant table and continued: “So when are you going to stop proving it and move BEYOND it?”
 
I looked at her confused.  “Huh?”
 
“You’ve done it Delaine – you’ve shown everyone that you can live just fine without a man.  You’ve taken lovers on your terms, you’ve made [...]

G-Spot: A Gem of a Post-Divorce Discovery!

By the end of my marriage, I’d given up trying to have a G-spot orgasm; I thought maybe anatomically I couldn’t have one.  But one night, post-divorce, that G-bomb came out of nowhere:  KA-POWEE!  It was a back-arching, soul-screaming Hallelujah! 

Afterwards however, I was freaked out – AND embarrassed.  Cause it happened with a man [...]