Sex vs Lovemaking – Why Are we so Confused?

Submitted by: Big Little Wolf
Did you get lucky this week?
Or should I say, did you score? Did you hook up? Or are you more comfortable if I ask if you made love?
Whatever you call it, great sex is great sex, right? Not exactly? Then do our distinctions in terminology serve us, or complicate matters?
When it [...]

Haunted by Ex Sex

By Peter Ehrlich
I’m haunted by my Ex Katherine. Not by that went wrong with our relationship, but what went right with our relationship – our love life.
After being laid naked, fetal-positioned, paralyzed, and wanting by our breakup, I want to attempt a sequel with my Ex.  I am willing to work harder on our vertical [...]

“Baby, this is sex not love.”

Submitted by Me & My Evil Twin
We went at it for hours.  And it was as awesome as the other six times we’d had sex.  Passionate.  Intense. Deep. Animalistic.  But as I lay beside him in the aftermath -  eyes closed, brain off in Post-Orgasmic Wonderland -  I suddenly heard:   “I love you, Lynn.”
My eyes flew open.  Did I imagine [...]

First Time Encounter: The Weakening, Sensual Touch of a Man

Submitted by Delaine
She said that within seconds of meeting him, she knew she was attracted to him.   And over the next two hours as they sat laughing and talking on their first date, their chemistry was so intense, it was palpable….
But somehow…somehow, she sensed there was something different about this man.  There was just ’something’ in his energy…the way he looked at her…the way [...]

Dating Younger Men – Would You? Could You? Dare Ya!

Submitted by Delaine
When I first started dating after divorce, I felt like I’d arrived on another planet.  Not just cause I had no idea how to date again, but because it quickly became apparent that a new ‘phenomena’ had come to town since I’d last visited:  Young Men Seeking Older Women.  And oh yeah -  their [...]

Sexual Adventure: Less Than A Bump & A Grind

 Prior to that night, I’d met him three times for dinner. And even though mentally and physically he charged all my cylinders, I kept my foot on the brakes; I wasn’t just looking for ‘any’ lover, I wanted an ‘alpha’ lover – a man who was strong, passionate, and very much in control, both inwardly [...]

One-Night Stands – Qualifiers & Disqualifiers

Recently my friend Sheila had the opportunity to go home with a lovely young man from a bar.  We’d all been out for a rare night of drinking and dancing and as the evening wore on, her engine got all revved up:  “Just look at all those beautiful shoulders!” she exclaimed.  ”HELL-O!”  So how pleased was she when a 30-year-old, soon-to-be [...]

“You’ve PROVEN you don’t need a man, Delaine.”

– My best friend Hali then put her wine glass down on the restaurant table and continued: “So when are you going to stop proving it and move BEYOND it?”

I looked at her confused. “Huh?”

“You’ve done it Delaine – you’ve shown everyone that you can live just fine without a man.  You’ve taken lovers [...]

G-Spot: A Gem of a Post-Divorce Discovery!

By the end of my marriage, I’d given up trying to have a G-spot orgasm; I thought maybe anatomically I couldn’t have one. But one night, post-divorce, that G-bomb came out of nowhere: KA-POWEE! It was a back-arching, soul-screaming Hallelujah!

Afterwards however, I was freaked out – AND embarrassed. Cause it happened with a man [...]