Sexless Marriage: Are You Turning Yourself Inside Out Trying to Get His Interest?

I became a slut for my ex. I was open to anything he wanted to do sexually. I guess it’s good for me that there wasn’t much he was interested in sexually…least of all me. I was so desperate for a husband who wanted sex with me I shutter when I think of how vulnerable [...]

Condoms: Healthy Sexual Behavior in Women Over 40

Submitted by: Big Little Wolf Are you single? Sexually active? Do you assume your partner or partners are healthy? Bad call. Disease isn’t personal. It isn’t judgmental. It doesn’t know if you attend church, if you brush your teeth and floss. If you’ve only had two sexual partners in a lifetime, or 302. What about [...]

“My New Girlfriend Doesn’t Like Oral Sex Or Cuddling”

  Submitted by Delaine Do you ever wonder if staying in an unhappy marriage for years has made you blind to warning signs as you date again?  Are you so accustomed to  ‘dealing with’ relationship issues and compromising who you are/what you need, that you continue dating someone who’s already bringing you down? Take Chuck for example, [...]

A Little Blush Goes a Long Way

Submitted by: Big Little Wolf Okay, I admit it. I use my assets to full advantage. What woman doesn’t? Granted, I’m still searching for a lower gravity planet, but in the meantime, all I need is a smart man who appreciates dark features, hot shoes, and… well, a handful. Better make that two! But my [...]

First Time Encounter: The Weakening, Sensual Touch of a Man

Submitted by Delaine She said that within seconds of meeting him, she knew she was attracted to him.   And over the next two hours as they sat laughing and talking on their first date, their chemistry was so intense, it was palpable…. But somehow…somehow, she sensed there was something different about this man.  There was just ‘something’ in his energy…the way he looked at [...]

Girlfriends, Let’s Talk About Sex!

Submitted by Delaine This past weekend I got together with a few of my closest girlfriends for a pre-holiday dinner.   These are women I’ve known for more than a decade – some married, some still single, some divorced. But as is commonly the case with thirty/forty-something female friends, it was just a matter of time until the topic of sex appeared on our dinner cards.  And [...]

Beware the Loose, Wrinkly, Unsymmetrical Vagina!

Submitted by Delaine   So apparently the look and feel of our vaginas are one more thing we’re suppose to be concerned about as we rebuild our lives after divorce.   Haven’t you heard?  We’re supposed to be as pretty and symmetrical as a text-book drawing.  Are you a little one-sided?  Stretched out?  Perhaps a [...]

Uninhibited, Sensual Pleasures: How Open Are You?

Submitted by: Maya Facebook has brought some amazing re~connections to all of us. For me it has brought an old (male) friend back into my sphere.  We have opened up like thirsty nestlings waiting for the next morsel.  Separated by fifteen thousand miles, we are comfortable enough to push boundaries and mystery.  I have been [...]

Depressed?

While researching an article I’m writing on sexless marriages, I came across this article in Psychology Today. It is an entertaining and comical (due to sheer idiocy) study that concludes women are addicted to semen. The finding that women who do not use condoms during sex are less depressed and less likely to attempt suicide [...]

Women’s Sexuality: A Starting Point or End Point for Learning

Submitted by Delaine Moore   My head is off is left field this morning, pondering women’s sexuality. I know – a complicated topic. But this is what I’m trying to figure out:   Does a woman’s sexuality ripple into other areas of her life? Is her sexuality, in fact, a metaphor in motion for her [...]

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