Trying To Understand Men: The “Buy-Her-A Drink” Pick-Up Method

Submitted by Delaine
What woman hasn’t found herself in this scenario? 
You’re at a bar, chatting with a girlfriend, when all of a sudden, the bartender or waitress suddenly puts an unordered drink in front of you.  “It’s from that man over there,” she says, pointing across the room.  You look over, only to see a man you [...]

Simple-minded, piggish men aren’t born that way?

Submitted by Delaine 
I’ve heard it said that most men are ’simple’ creatures.  They love ‘T’ and ‘A’ and think about women’s orifices many times a day.  They don’t like drama queens or control freaks.  They want women to laugh at their jokes.  And NOTHING, I mean NOTHING brings them greater joy than a great blow job first [...]

The Marrying Kind…

I have an acquaintance, a man I met through a local single parent’s group. His life is a mess but I don’t believe I’ve ever met anyone who takes it on the chin the way he does. This is one HAPPY fella.
 
Here is the problem; his happiness isn’t based in reality. He tiptoes through the [...]

Did he just stare at the waitress’ butt?

 Submitted by Delaine
When I’m out on a first date with a man, I pay attention to how he treats the server.  I notice:
 
Is he friendly?
 

Does he use good manners?
 
And, if the server is grumpy, how does he deal with it?

I do this to assess how respectful he is of different people, and to gage what [...]

Love him…love his penis.

I’ve been communicating with a woman whose husband is divorcing her. This woman is devastated. She loves her husband. I can hear her pain when we talk but I don’t hear her taking any responsibility for why he is leaving her for another woman.
You see, she loved him but she didn’t love his penis. There [...]

“They Just Weren’t That Into Me!”

Submitted by Delaine

I read the book and last night, I saw the movie. And “He’s Just Not That Into You” clearly revealed how I’d kept my head WAYYYYY up in the clouds when it came to men – my ex-husband included.

Time and time and time again, throughout my dating and married life, I [...]