Liars & Players & Snakes, Oh My!
July 26, 2010 by Cathy Meyer
Filed under Dating & Sex, Editor's Picks, Figuring Out Men, From The Dating Trenches
Submitted by Amelia
Venturing into the online dating world can feel as scary as trekking through a dark, unknown wood. Who lurk’eth in the shadows? we can’t help but wonder. Maybe “lions & ligers & bears, on my!”
As I set out on last weekend’s first-date ‘adventure,’ I admit I felt both nervous and excited. Both on the phone and [...]
How to Attract a Man and Keep Him Coming Back for More
July 26, 2010 by Cathy Meyer
Filed under Editor's Picks, Figuring Out Men, Love & Intimacy, cathymeyer
Wondering how to attract a man and keep him coming back for more?
It’s easier than it sounds. You don’t have to speak a foreign language, live in a loft in a trendy neighborhood, drive a hybrid, or down tequila shots without flinching. You don’t have to be anything but yourself.
The key to attracting a man [...]
The Passive Aggressive Man: He is All About Control
July 26, 2010 by Cathy Meyer
Filed under Editor's Picks, Figuring Out Men, The Ex, cathymeyer
If you were married to him, you know what I’m talking about. If you weren’t be on the look-out because chances are you will cross paths with a passive aggressive man?
Who is the passive aggressive man? He is that guy who avoids responsibility and conflict through passivity and withdrawal. He is the “Nice Guy” who [...]
Guys, Don’t Hate Her Cause She Has Dated Younger Men
June 23, 2010 by Amelia
Filed under Dating & Sex, Editor's Picks, Figuring Out Men, Society & The Divorcee, delainemoore
Submitted by Delaine
As I read through his lengthy profile on the dating site, I found myself laughing out loud. It was written with such good humor that I assumed THIS line was too:
“What I don’t like:
1) Women who date younger men in the hopes of hiding from the fact they are OLD.
2) Women who judge me cause [...]
How To Meet Men: Maybe Rent A Fancy Car?
May 31, 2010 by Amelia
Filed under Dating & Sex, Editor's Picks, Figuring Out Men, delainemoore
Submitted by Delaine
Further to Cathy’s list of top ten places to meet men, I want to top it off with one more – one that was inspired by a little story my married girlfriend Sue told me last weekend:
You see, Sue’s SUV was in the shop undergoing repairs. Consequently, she ended up having to drive her husband’s BMW for the [...]
The Male Wound & Why They Act Like Pigs
May 27, 2010 by Amelia
Filed under Dating & Sex, Editor's Picks, Figuring Out Men, delainemoore
Submitted by Delaine
So I’m becoming less judgmental and more open to men – and it has taken me a few years to get to here since divorcing (better late than never, right?). But after watching the movie, The Ugly Truth, and seeing how underneath Gerard’s Butler piggish character was a wounded man with a big [...]
Bad Men Bring Us Gifts
April 18, 2010 by Amelia
Filed under Evolution, Figuring Out Men, Love & Intimacy, Relationships, Wisdom Gained, delainemoore
Submitted by Delaine
Almost all women at some point in their lives attract a ‘bad man’; some of us marry him. And by ‘bad,’ I’m not simply referring to men who are drug lords, pimps, or wife abusers. No, “bad men” are men who don’ treat us and love us as wonderfully as we deserve. They [...]
Haunted by Ex Sex
March 4, 2010 by Amelia
Filed under Between The Sheets, Dating & Sex, Figuring Out Men, Relationships, peterehrlich
By Peter Ehrlich
I’m haunted by my Ex Katherine. Not by that went wrong with our relationship, but what went right with our relationship – our love life.
After being laid naked, fetal-positioned, paralyzed, and wanting by our breakup, I want to attempt a sequel with my Ex. I am willing to work harder on our vertical [...]
Trying To Understand Men: The “Buy-Her-A Drink” Pick-Up Method
August 18, 2009 by Amelia
Filed under Dating & Sex, Figuring Out Men, delainemoore
Submitted by Delaine
What woman hasn’t found herself in this scenario?
You’re at a bar, chatting with a girlfriend, when all of a sudden, the bartender or waitress suddenly puts an unordered drink in front of you. “It’s from that man over there,” she says, pointing across the room. You look over, only to see a man you [...]
Simple-minded, piggish men aren’t born that way?
August 4, 2009 by Amelia
Filed under Dating & Sex, Figuring Out Men, delainemoore
Submitted by Delaine
I’ve heard it said that most men are ’simple’ creatures. They love ‘T’ and ‘A’ and think about women’s orifices many times a day. They don’t like drama queens or control freaks. They want women to laugh at their jokes. And NOTHING, I mean NOTHING brings them greater joy than a great blow job first [...]










