Sleeping With A Man After Divorce

Submitted by Delaine Since separating from my ex-husband three years ago, I haven’t slept with many men; in fact, less than a handful. Oh – let me clarify:  I mean actually sleeping with men.  This has been the case for two reasons.  One, I haven’t wanted to sleep beside most of them.  And two, I usually have my [...]

Do You See His ‘Potential’ or Who He REALLY Is?

Submitted by Delaine It’s been three and a half years since my ex-husband and I split up.  And since then, despite the many dates and mini-relationships I’ve had, I’m still single.  But I don’t think of this as being a ‘bad’ thing ; I think I’ve needed this time – to heal, to grow, to like myself more…and to get [...]

Dating Mishap: Rather ironic…Don’t you think?

Submitted by Delaine So I spent the wee hours of last Monday night having a ‘private party’ with just me, a bottle of wine, and Alanis Morissette.  Of course, she was just playing on youtube… but I’ll tell you, the music from her album, Jagged Little Pill, sure did hit the spot  – especially the song, Ironic.  For [...]

Sex vs Lovemaking – Why Are we so Confused?

Submitted by: Big Little Wolf Did you get lucky this week? Or should I say, did you score? Did you hook up? Or are you more comfortable if I ask if you made love? Whatever you call it, great sex is great sex, right? Not exactly? Then do our distinctions in terminology serve us, or [...]

Liars & Players & Snakes, Oh My!

Submitted by Delaine Venturing into the online dating world can feel as scary as trekking through a dark, unknown wood.  Who lurk’eth in the shadows?  we can’t help but wonder.  Maybe “lions & ligers & bears, on my!” As I set out on last weekend’s first-date ‘adventure,’ I admit I felt both nervous and excited.  Both on the [...]

How to Attract a Man and Keep Him Coming Back for More

Wondering how to attract a man and keep him coming back for more? It’s easier than it sounds. You don’t have to speak a foreign language, live in a loft in a trendy neighborhood, drive a hybrid, or down tequila shots without flinching. You don’t have to be anything but yourself. The key to attracting [...]

LUST: Damned if You Give Into it, Damned if You Don’t

Submitted by Delaine As my divorced girlfriend Amy told me about a recent first date she went on, she was practically squealing.  For not only was her date smart, funny and gentlemanly, she was very sexually attracted to him.  “I kept having to tell myself to stop staring at his lips,” she laughed.  “My mind kept flashing with scenes of us getting [...]

Guys, Don’t Hate Her Cause She Has Dated Younger Men

Submitted by Delaine As I read through his lengthy profile on the dating site, I found myself laughing out loud.  It was written with such good humor that I assumed THIS line was too:  “What I don’t like: 1) Women who date younger men in the hopes of hiding from the fact they are OLD. 2) Women who [...]

What Kind Of Man Wants ‘Serious’ With A Single Mom?

Submitted by Delaine Moore So I broke up with someone last week – a single dad of two.   He’s the first man I’ve gone out with since divorcing that I contemplated getting serious with whatsoever.  But even though we got along brilliantly, even though he said he was crazy about me, one main thing deterred his interest: [...]

Ladies, how do you reply to married men on dating sites?

Submitted by Delaine Oh, the wild and wacky world of e-dating.  You’d think that by now, I’d be used to the insanity of it having been on and off sites for almost three years.  But THIS message, just in,  STILL caught me off guard: Hi gorgeous!  You are one fine looking lady, phew! lol.  Where do [...]

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