Guilty or Not Guilty? False Representation In The Bedroom

Submitted by Delaine When my divorced friend Barb moved in with her new boyfriend two years ago, she promised herself she’d make their relationship - particularly their sex life - top priority.  So in addition to their 6-10 weekly sessions of dynamite sex, Barb ALSO decided to make every Friday night all about his  – and only his – sexual pleasure. Now I’m sure you’d [...]

A Man Who Earns Me

Submitted by Delaine Recently I wrote an article about how the phrase ,”I need a man who challenges me’, carried some negative imagery and feelings around it for me.  It reminded me of my younger-day yearnings for Bad Boys (who did me no good) and - as a few girlfriends pointed out -  it had a [...]

Am I Afraid to Fall in Love?

Sumitted by Delaine Moore A close male friend of mine, one whose opinion I value greatly, keeps telling me:  Gypsy (his nickname for me), you are so afraid to fall in love.  You’ve built walls to protect yourself and keep men out, but you must be careful not to become your own prisoner. Immediately I [...]

The Man of My Dreams Will Lie in Bed With Me & Discuss a Good Book

Submitted by Delaine Moore I’ve always wanted to lie in bed beside the man I love and discuss a good book.  To me, the mere idea of it feels romantic.  Intimate.   Even exciting.  No man I’ve cared for thus far, including my ex-husband, was into reading books.  Sure, they’d pour over a newspaper or the [...]

Do You Pursue Your Heart’s Desire?

I was reading mommasunshine’s blog earlier tonight. Her post about love not making sense got me to thinking. I don’t have the best track record when it comes to love but I do have some great memories and two wonderful children and all because I listened to my heart instead of my head. My father [...]

A Handsome ‘Good Man” Helps Restore My Faith in Men

Submitted by Delaine Moore  I wasn’t looking for him. He was totally unplanned. But our emails progressed so quickly – naturally – that now, one month into our daily correspondence, his purpose in my life has emerged:   The universe deliberately brought me a Good Man. Not to be my partner, nor champion of life [...]

Risking it all…for love

Submitted by Delaine Moore   A girlfriend of mine says she’s fallen in love. She’s met him only three times – he lives thousands of miles away in the United States.. She talks now of how she plans to move there at the end of the year. She will find a new job. Move away [...]

Are there more important things in a relationship than great sex?

Submitted by: Delaine Moore Not long ago, a girlfriend of mine had a conversation with her husband that went like this: “So…did you have fun with the guys playing poker last night?” “Yup.” She sat there waiting…finally : “So what do you guys talk about when you meet up?” He looked at her like she [...]

The Male Chest

I miss it.  That’s right.  I miss the male chest.  You know the ones I’m talking about – the hard, broad shouldered big at the top smaller at the bottom kind. I dreamed that I was in my kitchen with this huge pile of dishes to wash before I could begin to cook a meal [...]

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