Ask The Divorce Coach: Separated But Living Together

Question Dear Shelley: Overview: husband cheated, tried to make it work, husband stopped his counselling, blamed me for not having sex cause I could not get over the “other woman”, cheated again, now separated, living in the same house but separate rooms, one 14 -year- old daughter, husband is out every night getting his “happiness [...]

Ask The Divorce Coach: Husband has left to go ‘find himself’

Dear Shelley: My husband moved out to “find himself” and decide if he wants to work on our marriage of 22 years or if he wants to be single. He had an affair and I lived with this knowledge and his sadness after the other woman dumped him for fear that her husband would find out.  Nonethethless I was still [...]

Ever Wonder Why Some Men Cheat?

Submitted by: Cathy If you’ve ever been the victim of infidelity the one thing you’ve wondered is “why” did he cheat? You will ask yourself that question dozens of times and may even think learning why the affair happened will keep it from happening again or relieve the pain you feel. The truth is, knowing [...]

Cheating Husband: Would You Tell Your Children About Your Husband’s Affair?

Submitted by: Erica Manfred I spoke at a divorce support group last night and heard some interesting stories about adult children of divorce.   One woman’s ex told her 19-year-old son that he was about to divorce her before he told her. Actually he asked his son whether he thought it was a good idea.  I [...]