Sex vs Lovemaking – Why Are we so Confused?

Submitted by: Big Little Wolf Did you get lucky this week? Or should I say, did you score? Did you hook up? Or are you more comfortable if I ask if you made love? Whatever you call it, great sex is great sex, right? Not exactly? Then do our distinctions in terminology serve us, or [...]

Al and Tipper Gore: A New Trend Toward Midlife Divorce?

Submitted by: Big Little Wolf Al and Tipper Gore to Divorce Unless you’ve been living under a rock, by now you’ve heard the term gray divorce, likely in conjunction with the news that Al and Tipper Gore are splitting up after 40 years. Of course, the original announcement was followed by a claim that Al [...]

Hot For A Cougar? How to Impress a Cougar Once You Catch Her

Submitted by: Big Little Wolf Hot for a Cougar who may have a few years on you? Eight? Ten? More? As a woman of a certain age who has been approached by younger men, and yes – involved with a few,  might I suggest the following tips? Don’t refer to her as any sort of [...]

Woman On The Go: Tips For Traveling Alone After Divorce

Submitted by: Big Little Wolf Traveling alone for the first time? As if divorce didn’t carry enough changes to get used to, there’s the sticky issue of finding yourself a single woman faced with the prospect of travel. On your own. Maybe you traveled alone before you were married, but it’s been years. Maybe you [...]

Stacy Morrison: When a Marriage Ends and You Don’t Know Why

Submitted by: Big Little Wolf In my morning reading, I came across an article in Forbes Woman that struck a chord. It concerns Stacy Morrison, former Editor-in-Chief of Redbook, speaking about her divorce and its aftermath in her new book, Falling Apart in One Piece: An Optimist’s Journey Through the Hell of Divorce. This isn’t [...]

Do You Know How to Work a Room?

Submitted by: Big Little Wolf Has it been awhile since you were out there, socially? Are you afraid to walk into a dinner party, a casual gathering, or any other social setting now that you’re on your own? Do you know how to work a room? Many of us suffer from some small measure of [...]

Do You Know What You Want?

Submitted by: Big Little Wolf Defining Personal and Professional Goads When it comes to resetting professional goals following divorce, we may not want to rock the boat because we’re shaken by the personal changes we’ve been through. But the dynamics of money, logistics, location, kids, and schools may require a careful look at work, and [...]

Mini Makeovers: New Look For a New Life?

Submited by: Big Little Wolf One of my rules to live by? Don’t make major decisions under stress or duress. And post-divorce life certainly qualifies on both counts. When I was newly single again, I realized that I wanted a new look for a new life, but I wasn’t sure what that might be. I [...]

Valentine’s Doldrums? I THINK NOT!

Submitted by: Big Little Wolf Valentine’s Day is coming up. Is it pulling on your heart strings, and making you feel a little bit sad? Are you facing it alone, and feeling pressure to be part of a couple? Valentine’s  doldrums? Cheer up! Valentine’s Day is intended to be about love, right? You have children [...]

The Friendship Equation: Never Discount the Value of Girlfriends During and After Divorce

Submitted by: Big Little Wolf Can family help when you’re going through divorce? You bet. But when it comes to this particular bumpy road and the months that follow, don’t discount the importance of friends. Don’t get me wrong – family is fantastic – and the more supportive they are, the better. Have kids? You’re [...]

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