How to Handle your Emotions during Divorce

May 4, 2010 by  
Filed under Coping, Grief & Anger, shellystile

Submitted by Divorce Coach Shelley Stile Divorce brings out the lunatic within us. Rage, anger, depression, sadness, resentment and blame are just some of negative emotions running the show. Your emotional state is hard to pin down from one moment to the next. This is not the best state of mind to be in when [...]

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With Time and Distance Comes a Calm Heart

December 4, 2009 by  
Filed under Evolution, Healing, Midlife Divorce, Wisdom Gained

Submitted by: Maya I caught a glimpse of the ex the other day. We had to be in the same place and cordially stayed on opposite sides of the room. He always keeps his back to me when we are in these situations but I always sit facing him, daring him to look into my [...]

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“You’ve PROVEN you don’t need a man, Delaine.”

March 26, 2009 by  
Filed under Between The Sheets, Dating & Sex, NoMore

Submitted by Delaine Moore “You’ve proven you don’t need a man, Delaine.”  My best friend Hali then put her wine glass down on the restaurant table and continued: “So when are you going to stop proving it and move BEYOND it?” I looked at her confused. “Huh?” “You’ve done it Delaine – you’ve shown everyone that you [...]

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He Called Me “Abrasive”

February 25, 2009 by  
Filed under Reflections, The Ex, Wisdom Gained

Submitted by: Delaine Moore Yesterday, I received an email from a man who’d read a bunch of my articles (on here and elsewhere).  And though he was mainly in praise of my work, my eyes kept returning to the word he used to describe my writing personality:  ABRASIVE. When I first read that word, I [...]

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