Why I Like To Date Divorced Men

Submitted by Delaine When I was younger (and thought I knew it all), I found it a total turn-off if a man told me he was divorced.  Immediately, I thought “failure”, “tainted,” and “person-with-luggage.” But today, as I wade through the sea of men on dating sites, I find I’ve done a 360 – I [...]

Internet Dating:Can talking a lot via phone or IM wreck the in-person meeting?

Submitted by Delaine Moore   A friend of mine recently asked me this question, and I’m curious as to what you think: If you talk to a prospective date a lot by phone or IM, can it spoil the in-person meeting?   My personal opinion?  Yes, it can.   Now don’t get me wrong – I always pre-screen a man once [...]

Did he just stare at the waitress’ butt?

 Submitted by Delaine Moore When I’m out on a first date with a man, I pay attention to how he treats the server.  I notice:   Is he friendly?   Does he use good manners?   And, if the server is grumpy, how does he deal with it? I do this to assess how respectful [...]

Men’s ‘Neediness’ Makes My Bloodstream Go To Ice

Submitted by Delaine Moore I’ve noticed a new tendency emerging in how I deal with men I date. And before I proceed, let me reiterate that I tell every man I date, straight out, that I’m NOT looking for serious; I’m NOT READY. So what happens is that when I’m having a conversation with a man and [...]

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