Hot For A Cougar? How to Impress a Cougar Once You Catch Her

Submitted by: Big Little Wolf

Hot for a Cougar who may have a few years on you? Eight? Ten? More?
As a woman of a certain age who has been approached by younger men, and yes – involved with a few,  might I suggest the following tips?

Don’t refer to her as any sort of feline creature. You [...]

That Blissful Moment of Physical Merging…

Submitted by Delaine
Today I want to talk about a moment during sex that many of you probably haven’t analyzed before:  that is,  the moment of initial physical mergence. Cause you see, a close divorcing girlfriend of mine recently took a new lover whose ‘entrance’ made her roll her eyes…with annoyance.
To use an analogy, his ongoing technique resembled a Samsung [...]

When you’re kind of a chameleon, how do you know what ‘type’ you like?

Submitted by Delaine
As I continue to wade through the vast sea of online dating, I find myself feeling impatient with myself.  Not because I want a man pronto, but because I’m STILL not sure what ‘type’ of man I like.  And I wonder, Did I get a chameleon chromosone at birth?  Or do I simply have no [...]

Uninhibited, Sensual Pleasures: How Open Are You?

Submitted by: Maya
Facebook has brought some amazing re~connections to all of us. For me it has brought an old (male) friend back into my sphere.  We have opened up like thirsty nestlings waiting for the next morsel.  Separated by fifteen thousand miles, we are comfortable enough to push boundaries and mystery.  I have been more [...]

Top Three Turn-Offs About SOME Divorced Dads

Submitted by Delaine
On the heels of my positive article called Why I Like To Date Divorced Men, I now want to disclose the top three things that turn me off some divorced DADS.  Please read that again -  I said SOME divorced DADS.  And no, this is not meant to undermine the positive stuff I [...]

One-Night Stands – Qualifiers & Disqualifiers

Recently my friend Sheila had the opportunity to go home with a lovely young man from a bar.  We’d all been out for a rare night of drinking and dancing and as the evening wore on, her engine got all revved up:  “Just look at all those beautiful shoulders!” she exclaimed.  ”HELL-O!”  So how pleased was she when a 30-year-old, soon-to-be [...]

Loving…without attachment

Laughing.
 
Making love.
 
Holding.
 
Pillow talking…  
 
 
No, I’m not sitting here dreaming of falling in love again.   I’m imagining what it would be like to experience a weekend of ‘love without attachment.’  And I wonder:  Might they be a wonderful prescription for our restless/ hurting hearts after divorce? 
 
Remember when you were in that really bad emotional place? Or maybe you’re there now.  The confusion, the [...]

Men’s ‘Neediness’ Makes My Bloodstream Go To Ice

I’ve noticed a new tendency emerging in how I deal with men I date. And before I proceed, let me reiterate that I tell every man I date, straight out, that I’m NOT looking for serious; I’m NOT READY.
So what happens is that when I’m having a conversation with a man and I perceive ‘neediness’ on [...]

“You’ve PROVEN you don’t need a man, Delaine.”

– My best friend Hali then put her wine glass down on the restaurant table and continued: “So when are you going to stop proving it and move BEYOND it?”

I looked at her confused. “Huh?”

“You’ve done it Delaine – you’ve shown everyone that you can live just fine without a man.  You’ve taken lovers [...]