Voicemail Disaster:Don’t Be Like Dimitri The Stud!

Submitted by Delaine Question for men:  When you call a woman for the first time and get her voicemail, what’s the best kind of message to leave her? Well, for starts: DON’T say anything like Dimitri The Stud does in the clip below DON’T say anything like Dimitri The Stud DON’T say anything like Dimitri [...]

Sexual Adventure: Less Than A Bump & A Grind

 Prior to that night, I’d met him three times for dinner. And even though mentally and physically he charged all my cylinders, I kept my foot on the brakes; I wasn’t just looking for ‘any’ lover, I wanted an ‘alpha’ lover – a man who was strong, passionate, and very much in control, both inwardly [...]

Sometimes It Sucks Being A Divorced Mom With No Family Support in Town

Submitted by Delaine   I’ve put off and put off and put off writing this blog because I was worried about coming across as a whiner.  But as my Good Man has reminded me once again, I’m not SuperWoman.  And so I confess:  I sometimes find it really hard being a divorced mom with no [...]

One-Night Stands – Qualifiers & Disqualifiers

Recently my friend Sheila had the opportunity to go home with a lovely young man from a bar.  We’d all been out for a rare night of drinking and dancing and as the evening wore on, her engine got all revved up:  “Just look at all those beautiful shoulders!” she exclaimed.  ”HELL-O!”  So how pleased was she when a 30-year-old, soon-to-be [...]

Cheating Scum in the Public Swimming Pool

Submitted by: Delaine I was at a public swimming pool with my three kids, playing in the toddler section.  A great big bucket of water above us was almost full and teetering to tip.  My kids squealed and we all huddled in, arms entwined, heads down…till finally, the much-anticipated water crashed over our heads and backs. Laughing, [...]