Is Infidelity a Form of Domestic Abuse?
August 16, 2010 by madelinegrace
Filed under Domestic Abuse, Editor's Picks, Infidelity, madelinegrace
In many instances, betrayal through infidelity can be very close to what we term domestic violence. Unfaithful husbands, especially if your husband has passive aggressive tendencies, are often insensitive to the pain they inflict, just as are perpetrators of physical and psychological violence.
Often a wife is as vulnerable and dependent as the victim of repeated [...]
Ask The Divorce Coach: I’d do ANYTHING to bring him back…
August 1, 2010 by Amelia
Filed under Editor's Picks, Grief & Anger, Infidelity, shellystile
Question:
Hi Shelley,
About 2 1/2 years ago my husband of 16 years told me he didn’t love me anymore. I immediately started vomiting and became hysterical. I was a stay-at-home mom to three kids, had worshiped the ground he walked on, and thought he was my best friend.
I later found out that he had been cheating [...]
Jar of Hearts
July 21, 2010 by Cathy Meyer
Filed under Editor's Picks, Grief & Anger
Submitted by Amelia
Three weeks ago,unknown and unsigned singer Christina Perri was working as a waitress in a Philadelphia cafe. But by chance – or perhaps grand design - a song she wrote called Jar of Hearts, landed in the hands of Stacey Tookey, a choreographer for So You Think You Can Dance. Virtually overnight, Christina’s life has become a whirlwind [...]
Ask The Divorce Coach: Husband has left to go ‘find himself’
June 6, 2010 by Cathy Meyer
Filed under Deciding to leave, Editor's Picks, Midlife Divorce, shellystile
Dear Shelley:
My husband moved out to “find himself” and decide if he wants to work on our marriage of 22 years or if he wants to be single.
He had an affair and I lived with this knowledge and his sadness after the other woman dumped him for fear that her husband would find out. Nonethethless I was still willing to [...]
Ever Wonder Why Some Men Cheat?
February 15, 2010 by Amelia
Filed under Infidelity, Infidelity, cathymeyer
Submitted by: Cathy
If you’ve ever been the victim of infidelity the one thing you’ve wondered is “why” did he cheat? You will ask yourself that question dozens of times and may even think learning why the affair happened will keep it from happening again or relieve the pain you feel.
The truth is, knowing “why” won’t [...]
Pathways Carved By Sorrow
January 28, 2010 by Amelia
Filed under Coping, Evolution, Towards magnificence, delainemoore
Submitted by Delaine
I say without shame that over the past two years since divorcing, I’ve felt lows unlike anything I’ve ever felt before. It wasn’t just because of experiencing infidelity, though that full-body shock and heartbreak was excruciating. There were also many other kinds of ‘lows’: feelings of emptiness….restlessness… loneliness. And of course the big one: FEAR.
Time and time and time again, I [...]
Serving It Up Cold To That Lying, Cheating Bastard
January 26, 2010 by Amelia
Filed under Books, Grief & Anger, Infidelity, More Topics, delainemoore
Submitted by Delaine
When you found out your spouse was cheating, were you obsessed with thoughts of revenge? Throwing all his clothes in a heap on the lawn…slashing his tires…or forwarding copies of his cyber sex sessions to his entire address book? Maybe your fantasies were more devious – perhaps they involved some Superglue and the bathroom throne. [...]
Tiger Woods “R” Us
December 11, 2009 by Amelia
Filed under Celebs & News, Coping, Infidelity, More Topics, cathymeyer
Submitted by: Erica Manfred
I’ve been wondering why the Tiger Woods thing is such a big deal in the media. Why do people care about Tiger’s infidelities? After all, it seems to me that infidelity is treated as no big deal in this country. Men cheat every day, get caught, get divorced, leave their kids, drag [...]
Understanding the Pain and Rejection of Infidelity
November 13, 2009 by Amelia
Filed under Coping, Grief & Anger, Healing, Infidelity, Infidelity, Midlife Divorce, ericamanfred
Submitted by: Erica Manfred
Women who have been left for another woman describe the experience in extreme terms: Stella, sixty-two, whose husband left her for someone else after thirty-three years of marriage was typical: “ I cried every day for two months. I still cry two years later. And railed and screamed in the car and [...]
Can Infidelity Save The Modern Marriage?
November 12, 2009 by Amelia
Filed under Coping, Infidelity, Online Dating, delainemoore
Submitted by Delaine
Can cheating on your spouse end up saving your marriage? According to Noel Biderman in his new book, Cheaters Proper, How Infidelity Will Save The Modern Marriage, the answer, believe it or not, is yes.
Who is this Noel Biderman? This native Torontonian is the CEO and founder of The Ashley Madison Agency, an online dating service that helps married men [...]










