Friends With Benefits: A Myth, A Rarity, Or Matter of Luck?

Submitted by Delaine Over  two years ago, when my best friend Hali and I found ourselves newly separated and back out in the dating trenches, we kept hearing the term “Friends With Benefits.”   We both liked the sound of it and decided it was something we wanted.  After all, we weren’t ready for serious, but we wanted to have sex.  Thus [...]

Loving…without attachment

Submitted by Delaine Moore Laughing. Making love. Holding. Pillow talking…   No, I’m not sitting here dreaming of falling in love again.   I’m imagining what it would be like to experience a weekend of ‘love without attachment.’  And I wonder:  Might they be a wonderful prescription for our restless/ hurting hearts after divorce?  Remember when you were in that really bad emotional [...]