Something has gone seriously awry in the world of the “other woman.” They have forgotten that they are the “other woman.” A title that comes with no entitlement, no power, no rights and damned sure no claim to an apology.

Heads up ladies, if you make the choice to shed your lacy thongs and spread your legs for a married man, your expectations should not be high. It would be foolish to expect a high return on the investment you make in that man.

In fact, you should have no expectations at all. You see, you are not the victim; you are the victimizer. You may not be married, you may not be breaking any vows but you are taking something that doesn’t belong to you and the last I heard, a thief is a thief. The belief that any of Tiger’s mistresses are owed an apology is quite the narcissistic view on entitlement.

When I hear stories about some mistress demanding an apology from the married man she slept with I have to ask myself, “what the hell?” When did women and men become so unaware of the fact that wanting someone doesn’t mean going after than someone regardless of who you hurt in the process. When did men and woman become so willing to plow down the feelings of others just to have what they want? When and how did we as a society get to the point that we no longer understand that it is NOT OK to sleep with another person’s spouse?

Jamie Jungers, one of Tiger’s mistresses told E! Online that his public apology was “crap,” “hurtful” and “rude.” Some insight for you Jamie…sleeping with someone else’s husband is “rude” honey. Carrying on an affair is “hurtful” to those who actually have the right to expect fidelity from the man you are sleeping with. In addition, any woman who crawls into bed with a married man is looking at “crap” every time she passes a mirror.

Then there is Joslyn James, the ex porn star who claims to have been impregnated by Tiger twice during their affair. Seems Joslyn has suffered loss of income due to not being able to work due to the emotional stress of learning exactly who Tiger Woods was. How about we put two and two together? Doing so shows, plain as day who Tiger Woods is. And why Joslyn or anyone else who sleeps with a married man is surprised when that man shows them who he really is, is surprising to me.

You can spray a little perfume on it, paint it’s face and doll it up but it is still a home wrecker…not a victim. Please, someone, explain to these misguided women that they’ve earned nothing but a few negative labels and the right to now fade into the background where they belong. You may not ever get an apology but fade away into obscurity and I’ll send you a hearty THANKS…skanks!

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